With some adjustments, she says, there's no reason to leave sexual satisfaction in the past. "If something was really good right now, why would you want it to stop?" "I'm always amazed at how people are surprised about talking about sex and older adults, like it's always this great revelation," she says. Wilton helps clients navigate the changes in their bodies – and keep their sex lives thriving. Shots - Health News Lubrication And Lots Of Communication: Navigating A New Sexual Life After Menopause Natalie Wilton, a therapist who specializes in senior sexuality, says it's no surprise that people feel pessimistic about sex as they age. Also, "sexually optimistic" individuals who acquired physical limitations they didn't have ten years before – such as pain that made it harder to lift groceries or exercise – reported having more frequent sex than people who had lower sexual expectations and no such limitations. Participants who were optimistic about their sex lives reported having significantly more frequent and more satisfying sex than those who had lower expectations. Their findings seem to demonstrate the power of positive thinking. Researchers then checked in with the participants a decade later. Īs part of the MIDUS (Midlife in the US) study, hundreds of partnered adults ages 45 and up were asked to rate how satisfying they expected their sex lives to be 10 years in the future. To get more stories like this delivered to your in-box, click here to subscribe. I'd rather be alone than with someone who is just using me.This story was adapted from the April 30 edition of NPR Health, a newsletter covering the science of healthy living. I won't be one of those guys that obeys their abusive cheating wives like a zombie without a brain, spine, ball bag, or self respect. If she can't accept that then she was never interested in being part of a 50/50 partnership in the first place.
If she want's me to take her back when I'm over her betrayals,(This is not the first incident), she's being given the opportunity to prove it by holding herself to the same standards I was held to, even though I am not. And I told her that I will do what I want, when I want, who I want.
A choice she basically made without my input. Otherwise, this is now an open relationship. I keep the house, the cars and other assets, custody. I can prove I put in what it takes to reconcile.
I take everything based on breach of contract. Then I told her if she want's a divorce, fine. of her admitting the affair and her aunts eye witness of her and her aunts boyfriends **. I also kept recordings, call records, etc. Part of me wants to snap and part me wants to let it go. I asked if her best friend knows and she said she doesn't. We've been together for 21 years and I would hate to see it end like this. I'm devastated but don't want to divorce her.
I went home ad asked her how long it has been going on, she told me for the past year and a half. My wife called me an hour later asking where I was and saying she was so sorry that I had to witness that. I left the house and went to a bar to get drunk. They made no attempt to come out of our room, which leads me to believe they continued having **. I closed the door and went to get my keys. She turned around and looked at me and so did he. I opened the door to our bedroom and my wife was riding him. This is a man that has been married to my wife's best friend for 14 years and someone I am friends with. I came home from work early one day to walk in on my wife having ** with her best friend's husband.
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